Self-introduction letter items – Personality (sociable/friendly)

In this blog post, we will introduce examples of sociable and friendly personalities that can be used in self-introduction letters, organized by situation.

 

I boast a solid network of connections

I strive to form a solid network of connections through customized management tailored to each individual. Due to the nature of Korea, where people belong to groups and inevitably influence each other, I believe that the most important quality required of an individual is the ability to build strong connections with others. As the saying goes, “the arm bends toward the heart,” carefully managing relationships with people is the fastest way to gain more opportunities, favorable evaluations, and positive impressions from others. As the saying goes, “Three heads are better than one,” words spoken by many people have an absolute influence in human relationships, and if you receive positive evaluations from those around you, your positive image will inevitably skyrocket.
Sometimes, people criticize this kind of careful people management, saying that it is intentionally formed for personal gain or work purposes. However, I value both relationships that I build for personal reasons and those that I build for work, and I believe in a future where I can develop myself by forming a network of relationships, so I always try to make a good impression on everyone.

 

 

Natural friendliness and proactive attitude

Since I was 21, I have been a leader whenever I have been part of a team. I think this is because of my easygoing personality and proactive attitude. Many young people my age are depressed because they are worried about the military and their future, but since I have had various experiences since I was 20, I have learned that taking action is more effective and leads to better results than worrying, so I have been proactive, and as a result, many people follow me. As a leader of various groups, I have gained the confidence that I can quickly become friends with anyone and have the sociability to have fun in any group. In addition, I am not easily discouraged in any situation and act proactively based on my curiosity about the world and my work.
The downside of my personality is that I am often impulsive because I like challenges. I tend to take on a lot of work because I get things done easily, but sometimes I take on more than I can handle. To fix this, I developed a new habit of asking three people for their opinions before making a decision. When I have to make a decision, I always ask the opinions of three people around me before making a decision. Since I started making decisions this way, I have made fewer mistakes and reckless decisions.

 

 

A person who creates a relaxed atmosphere

My strength and advantage is that I can lead and create a relaxed atmosphere among people. It’s not always about cracking jokes or telling funny stories to make the atmosphere better. There’s a certain code to humor. The approach varies depending on the situation. When meeting someone for the first time or in a formal setting, I compliment their clothes or appearance. When meeting with superiors or clients, I give specific compliments or ask questions about the most senior person, such as, “The weather is nice today,” or “Your shirt looks nice. or “Your skin looks great,” or “I like your shirt. Where did you get it?” My secret is to break the ice by saying something like this first to create a relaxed atmosphere.
I like people and am interested in many things, so I tend to overlook small details. To reduce such mistakes, I manage my schedule thoroughly. I use Google Schedule to set alarms for all important tasks and check my daily to-do list every morning. It was tedious and troublesome at first, but it became a habit, and now I can’t start my day without checking my schedule. Now, this habit has become a good habit that covers my shortcomings.

 

 

I like people and enjoy giving gifts

The best thing about my personality is that I like people. I like people, so I easily get along with people I meet for the first time, and I maintain good relationships with people I get close to. I try to understand others and take the initiative, so I don’t clash with people very often. I also like giving gifts. In the past, music director Park Kal-rin appeared on a program called “Healing Camp” and said that he likes to give gifts to people he likes. I was surprised to hear that, because I feel the same way. I give gifts to people I am grateful to, people I love, my parents, and even my employees. When I see something that would make a good gift, I make a note of it and give it to them on Christmas or Chuseok. That’s why people around me say that I’m like a Christmas man. But I’m just happy to see people happy. Because of my personality, I often find myself serving customers with sincerity, and many of them appreciate it.
The downside of my personality is that I have a hard time saying no. When I was in a management position, I would take on all the work because I couldn’t say no, and I had trouble speaking decisively. However, as I worked, I realized that this trait could actually be an advantage. This is because I don’t push people too hard, I do my best, and I want to work with others from the bottom of my heart, so when my sincerity is understood, it creates a greater synergy effect than a strict hierarchical relationship. At that time, I realized that I should strive to make this aspect of myself a strength.

 

 

Flexible relationships and accurate work

First, my strengths are my friendliness and determination, which make people feel like they have known me for a long time. When I was in college, I quickly became friends with my classmates who attended the department orientation in February before I enrolled, as well as with my seniors, and I often visited the department office even before I enrolled. After enrolling, I was immediately elected as the class representative for the first semester of my freshman year and received overwhelming support. When I joined my first company, I became the representative of my new employee group and led regular meetings and study sessions. Even during my early days as a new employee, when I was nervous and busy learning the ropes, I was cheerful and energetic, and my seniors often told me that I didn’t seem like a new employee. Thanks to my personality, I was able to fit in well with the organization and maintain good relationships with my seniors and colleagues. This was also helpful in sales and purchasing, where I dealt with external companies.
My second strength is my flexible thinking and accurate work. My efforts to think from the other person’s perspective help me understand them better and lead to better negotiations. When a client requested an unreasonable price reduction, I persuaded our partner and renegotiated with the client to reach an agreement on a reasonable price reduction. This was the result of accurate market analysis and thinking from the other party’s perspective.
Third, I have a wide range of interests and a deep understanding of all industries. Regardless of my major in college, I have a strong understanding of engineering, including machinery and electronics, which allows me to quickly adapt to engineering-related work. In addition, through my work experience, I have worked in various industries, including architecture, civil engineering, textiles, and mobile, and have systematically acquired knowledge in those fields.

 

 

A child who liked to get along with people

The neighborhood where I lived was so small that everyone knew each other. Naturally, I was with the same friends from first grade to sixth grade, so I became very close to them. Although I was young at the time, I had a lot of fun sharing true friendship with my friends. I knew the joy of having friends, and because I grew up surrounded by good people, I continued to spend time with my friends in middle school and high school. As a result, I didn’t do well in school, but I gained a lot from having many friends. Each person had their own story, and I was deeply moved by them. Some of my friends struggled because they didn’t have money, but even so, they worked hard to get by. Some of my friends had to take care of their younger siblings without their parents, but even in difficult situations, they always smiled. Through deep conversations with such diverse friends, I learned that there are many different ways of life in the world, and I think I was able to grow more through my experiences with people than through books. Therefore, having many people around me and many close friends was a great strength for me, and having many people around me when I do something has been a great asset.
However, the downside of my personality is that I have trouble making decisions. Because I like people, I find it difficult to refuse requests, and I often find myself taking on other people’s work. Therefore, when I work, I try to separate work and personal matters and cooperate with others rather than taking on too much.

 

 

I like working with others and I am a cautious person

The greatest strength of my personality is that I enjoy working with others. Having worked in computer engineering for a long time, I have rarely met anyone who enjoys programming and also enjoys spending time with others. This is because everyone hates mistakes, is meticulous, and is accustomed to working alone. However, while I enjoy working alone, I also enjoy working with others. I like working on projects together to develop better security systems, and I also like solving problems through discussion. I also enjoy participating in sports events and other activities with my colleagues. However, I am quite cautious when it comes to work. When I have a goal or something I need to study, I make a plan in advance and decide how much I will do each day before I start working on it. Also, when making a decision, I tend to think carefully to make sure it is the right one. That’s why I think I’m more defensive than adventurous, and I thought that IT security would suit me better than program development or app development.
On the other hand, my cautious nature sometimes causes me to procrastinate. I am not procrastinating, but rather thinking things through, yet people sometimes think I am procrastinating and just move on. With many such experiences, I now make it clear when I am in the process of making a decision, and I try to be flexible when quick decisions are necessary.

 

 

I enjoy interacting with many people

I am the type of person who prefers interacting with many people to being alone because I want to feel warmth. When I was a child, my parents always worked outside the home, so I didn’t have the opportunity to grow up feeling the warmth of others, and I became somewhat lonely due to a lack of affection. As a result, I became outgoing, actively seeking opportunities to talk and spend time with others, and I am not shy about arranging meetings with large groups of people. I also realize how essential smooth interpersonal relationships are for people to grow properly. This is because I believe that it is not only important to set the right direction for oneself and grow without standing out, but also to feel the warmth of others and share a sense of unity, which is what enables people to grow without becoming isolated or deviating from the norm.
Some people advised me to spend time alone to mature, but I am the type of person who feels comfortable in a group and can show my true colors when I have a stable foundation, so I preferred to stay in places where I could actively interact with many people and feel their presence.

 

 

A personality focused on making new friends and socializing

When I was young, I was always eager to make new friends and hang out with them wherever I went. In order to keep in touch with people I knew in my neighborhood and beyond, it was essential to have a means of communication, so I always kept my cell phone and text message usage high, maintaining close relationships with many people. This is because I believed that friendships between people do not end when you become comfortable with each other, but rather that they begin in earnest at that point, and that you must always strive to take them to the next level. Just as you must constantly weave together the threads of momentary connections to create a large piece of fabric, you must always engage in rich interaction with others.
I also wondered how wonderful it would be if there were a portable program that allowed people to interact more freely than through phone calls or text messages. It was fun to chat with acquaintances in real time on the computer and leave messages for each other, but it was difficult to do that on a portable device. Adults were concerned that we would become the latest generation to be insensitive to human relationships and interactions because we were always looking at our electronic devices, but I was able to refute such prejudices by making friends with people far away, something I could never have dreamed of in the past. I deeply believe that as long as people are sincere, their hearts can transcend time and space, so I always tried my best to convey my true feelings to others.

 

 

Sociable and adaptable personality

I wasn’t always sociable. In elementary and junior high school, I was often told that I was too introverted, and I was usually quiet and didn’t talk much. I was an average student who studied moderately, communicated moderately, and maintained moderate friendships. However, when I entered high school, I began to think differently. In particular, I discovered my aptitude for programming and found something I wanted to do, which changed my perception of myself.
It gave me energy to know that I had something I wanted to do, something I was good at, and something I wanted to challenge myself with. With this energy as a springboard, I began to study harder and actively socialize with my classmates. When I was in high school, I formed a team to develop game software through a club activity. We sometimes participated in competitions and became fascinated with IT development, which led us all to pursue computer engineering in college. From the moment I started working hard to improve myself, I became more sociable and adaptable.
I changed from being shy to being outgoing, and now I don’t hesitate to say what I want to say. After becoming more outgoing, I realized how important dreams and goals are to individuals. I realized that people who set goals and strive to achieve them have passion and energy, and that energy makes them lively. That is why I decided to become a person who never loses their dreams and passion, no matter where I am. In fact, even after entering university, I ran a software development project organization while actively preparing for employment.

 

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